I’ve had enough boyfriends and enough issues. I’d seen enough train wrecks.
You show your vulnerability through relationships, and those feelings are your soft spot. You need to have a soft spot.
Personally, I don’t like a girlfriend to have a husband. If she’ll fool her husband, I figure she’ll fool me.
Practically all the relationships I know are based on a foundation of lies and mutually accepted delusion.
I started dating older men, and I would fall in love with them. I thought they could teach me about life.